What is a Marriage Encounter?
Marriage
Encounter is designed to give married couples the opportunity to examine
their
lives together.. a time to share their feeling, their hopes, disappointments,
joys and frustrations.. and to do so openly and honestly in a face-to-face,
heart-to-heart encounter with the one person they have chosen to live
with for the rest of their life.
The emphasis of Marriage Encounter is on communication between husband and wife, who spend a weekend together away from the distractions and the tensions of everyday life, to concentrate on each other.
It's not a retreat, nor a marriage clinic, nor group sensitivity. It's a unique approach aimed at revitalizing Christian Marriage.
This is a time for you and your spouse to be alone together. To rediscover each other and together focus on your relationship for an entire weekend. Every marriage deserves that kind of attention!
Who is it for?
Any married couple who desires a richer fuller
life together. A marriage can never be too good. Marriage Encounter is designed
to deepen and enrich the joys a couple shares together, whether they have been
married for only a short time, or many years. Marriage Encounter also provides
support and encouragement to priests and religious who are dedicated to their
vocation in life.
Do you have to be Catholic?
The weekend is Catholic in orientation and is
expressed in the tradition and understanding of the Catholic Church. It is
open to all, and so a certain number of spaces are reserved each weekend for
couples of other faiths.
What Happens at
a Worldwide Marriage Encounter?
A series of presentations are given by a team
of Catholic couples and a Catholic Priest. Each presentation allows you and
your spouse a rare opportunity to look at yourselves as individuals, then to
look at your marriage and your relationship to one another, and finally to
look at your relationship to God, the Church and the world . The weekend starts
at 8:00 PM on Friday night and runs until about 4:30 PM on sunday afternoon.
Does the weekend
respect the couple's privacies?
YES. The weekend is oriented strictly to
each individual couple. You concentrate on your spouse to such an extent that
you are hardly aware of the other couples present. The presentations are given
to the group as a whole. After each presentation, the husband and wife have
time in the privacy of their room for their own personal discussion.
How does a Marriage
Encounter enhance a marriage?
The encounter weekend reaches a communication
technique which permits each couple to explore important areas of their
relationship in a spirit of love and understanding. By continuing the
newly acquired technique begun on the weekend, husbands and wives continually
grow closer together to live more joyful and purposeful lives.
When and Where?
Marriage Encounter weekends are held regularly
at local motels and retreat houses. In some areas there is a waiting list
for the weekend. So, registration several months in advance may be advisable.